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Divorce Mediation Checklist

Check the preparation items that apply to your circumstances and print a copy if it is safe to do so.

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Divorce mediation preparation

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Documents and finances

Children and household

Questions for the meeting

Safety and support

Refreshing clears your checkmarks. Only print or keep a copy where it is safe to do so.

About the divorce mediation checklist

Divorce mediation can involve finances, property, parenting and plans for moving forward. A preparation list can help you gather information without assuming that every family has the same needs.

The process, disclosure requirements and available protections differ by location. Ask the mediator what they need and consider independent legal advice.

How it works

1

Review the categories

Look through financial documents, parenting questions, meeting logistics and support.

2

Mark what is ready

Check completed items and leave anything that does not apply unchecked.

3

Print if useful

Take your list to your mediator or your own lawyer; keep a printed copy somewhere safe.

Ways couples use this tool

Before the first session

Identify information to gather and questions to ask about the process.

Between meetings

Notice which documents or decisions still need follow-up.

Things to keep in mind

  • Bring copies only when it is safe and appropriate to share them.
  • Ask about separate sessions or other accommodations if meeting together feels unsafe.
  • Check local deadlines with a lawyer or court.

Frequently asked questions

What documents should I bring to divorce mediation?

Ask your mediator first. Common starting points include recent income information, account and debt statements, property records and an outline of expenses.

Do I have to mediate with my spouse in the same room?

Practices and rules vary. Ask about separate sessions and safety accommodations, and obtain independent advice if you have concerns.

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